AUTISM: AT HOME AND AT WORK

ONE MAN’S PERSONAL JOURNEY


Meet Mr Arifeen Kamaluddin, centre manager at the THK Autism Centre @ Geylang Bahru, nephew to a special uncle, and father to a beautiful child with autism.

 

When you first meet Mr Arifeen Kamaluddin, what strikes you is his incredible positive energy.  As the new manager of THK Autism Centre @ Geylang Bahru, Arifeen is excited to be working with his passion again.

His journey alongside individuals with special needs first started when he was a young boy. Arifeen grew up as a regular child, albeit with a special twist, one not commonly shared by others. While many 12-year-old children returned home to relax, get schoolwork done, or engage in sports, Arifeen went home and helped to take care of his uncle, who had an intellectual disability. His uncle was just two years older than him, with a deep love for swings at playgrounds and spicy mee goreng.

Arifeen and his uncleMohd Tawfeek, Arifeen’s uncle (left), and Arifeen (right)

However, Arifeen never found it to be burdensome. “It was a joy in taking care of him as we were very close,” he shared. “We enjoyed doing the little things together.” Even though he started out in the accounting field, Arifeen found his way back to the social service sector due to his unwavering love for people with special needs such as his uncle.

After years of service in the special needs sector, his son, Mohd Muhyeddin Abdul Qadir, was diagnosed with autism. For the first time, he experienced what it was like to be a parent with all the struggles and joys of raising a child with autism and being on the receiving end of social services.

In his son’s early years, his son was non-verbal, liked to wander off, and rolled on the floor when he did not have his way. He would be shouting for no reason at times in public places, and used to play with his saliva.

“As I had grown up with an adult with an intellectual disability, I was alright with the fact about my son. But my wife was initially affected after knowing that he was diagnosed with autism. But we learnt to shift our mindsets together, to be more positive and accepting, learning to appreciate his talents and strengths instead.”

 

Arifeen-and-his-sonArifeen and his son, Mohd Muhyeddin Abdul Qadir, sharing a sweet moment

It was also then that Arifeen had his first brush with THK. “After attending THK EIPIC Centre @ Choa Chu Kang, he improved a lot,” Arifeen commented. “One of the biggest joys for him was to attend the THK EIPIC Centre @ Choa Chu Kang, where he really enjoyed and it really transformed his life. Till now, I hold this in my heart and am so happy that I have this chance to contribute back to THK for what they did for my son.”

When Arifeen first applied for the position of Centre Manager in THK, he did not know yet that it was for an Autism Centre. “I was really happy when I knew about it. It felt like I had come full circle.” Bringing up a child with autism has also allowed Arifeen to empathise with every caregiver who has had children with autism. When he meets the parents of his students at the centre, he remembers what it was like to be them, and their worries and hopes for their children.

Arifeen, together with his amazing team of staff, serve clients aged 16 to 55 years old diagnosed with Autistic Spectrum Disorder at the THK Autism Centre @ Geylang Bahru.

 

Arifeen and TeamArifeen, his team of staff, and some of the students at the THK Autism Centre @ Geylang Bahru

To find out more information about the THK Autism Centre @ Geylang Bahru, please click here: THK Autism Centre @ Geylang Bahru